Tuesday, 6 October 2015


Each time you laugh,
Someone in the world is crying.

Each time you wake up,
Somebody else is dying.

Each time you hug someone,
Another is up and fighting.

Every moment you say the truth,
Somebody else is lying.

Each time you make love,
Another is being raped.

And every time you make a plan,
For some it is really late.

Alcoholism in India

            In today’s India along with the other social problems the alcoholism is the most effective and influential problem. The existing problem of alcoholism depends to a great extent on certain social definitions held within a given society at a given time. This reflects through our agreement or disagreement over the appropriate use of alcohol. For medical purposes, use of alcohol on a moderate scale may be approved. But for non medical purposes, for pleasure or other personal reasons use of narcotic drinks is considered harmful not only for the individual but also for his family and the society at large.
          You cannot look at a stranger and say with confidence from his appearance that he is an alcoholic. It is easy to tell that a man is drunk but not that he is a habitual drinker. Yet continued excessive drinking does produce bodily change and these in turn result in illness both physical and mental.

            Alcoholism is not necessarily harmful either to the individuals or to the social system. But excessive drinking and alcoholism involve significant social costs in terms of loss of employment, family break-up and social disorder.

When it is used on a moderate scale, alcohol is said to have certain beneficial effect.
  1. It makes life in a highly tensioned world more bearable.
  2. It is a valuable social lubricant.
  3. It unlocks the door to a more vivid inner life.
  4. As a drug, it can relieve one of pain and produce a pleasant feeling.
  5. It is also used in treatment of the sick.


 Why do men do drink?
Men drink to share their joy and happiness.
They drink during the celebration or parties.
They drink when they are depressed or sad.
They drink to avoid tension.
They drink to gain confidence.
They drink to keep themselves warm.
They drink because they are tired.
They drink just for fun sake.
They drink to be accepted by their friend.
They drink when they go through some crisis like break-up, family problem etc.
They drink to keep themselves healthy… drink as medicine.
They drink because they are addicted to it.

            The misery of a dreary and unending round of toil in life leads many to take drinks as the only blessed palliative medicine.
Occupational exhaustion, is another factor that makes the people working the extreme heat of the blast furnace, in the extremely noisy factory to look forward eagerly to the respite which intoxication affords them.
            Bad housing and lack of adequate recreational facilities also lead men to resort to drinking. Their houses being cold, dark, dismal and sordid do not provide for satisfaction of their emotions, in a sane and healthy manner.
            Ignorance and false notions also make men indulge in drinking.
Men doing heavy manual labour believe that alcohol gives them added strength and vigor with which they can pursue their work.
In India some are born drunkards whose neurological heritage is such that they are unable to face reality. In their desperate effort to escape the reality, they become of drunkenness.
In order to establish rapport with one’s fellow beings, an individual may take his first drink, just because every one else does it, and gradually repeated performance leads to ‘perversion of the hard instinct.’


Alcoholism and Alcohol Abuse


            Alcohol plays an important role in the life of human person. It brings joy during the time of celebration, it helps two friends come together, it can also destroy the health of a person, and it can also create fight among family. Sometimes it is good for health because it is used as medicine. But taking too much of it may create a problem for the health. It also plays an important role during the times of wedding ceremony or some traditional ceremony.

            You cannot look at a stranger and say with confidence from his appearance that he is an alcoholic. It is easy to tell that a man is drunk but not that he is a habitual drinker. Yet continued excessive drinking does produce bodily change and these in turn result in illness both physical and mental.

            People who drink regularly in a group in a bar, with the same bunch of friends are a well-recognized variant. They compensate in this way for deficiencies in their social relationships. Every where else they feel inferior; only here, surrounded by trusted and uncritical companions, increasingly so as the evening proceeds, are they able to feel at ease, inspired by the each other, round after round; each drinker orders in his turn, not only for the satisfaction of his own drink but also for the pleasure he gets from treating the friends he holds in such regard. Here, at least, he is somebody’s peer.

            Some who drink in this way are basically isolate, friendless people. Passive, good-nurtured, they have never learned to form mature relationship and in the undemanding, casual camaraderie of the bar they are never taxed intellectually or emotionally; they are in their element

            Alcoholism and alcohol abuse are due to many interconnected factor, including genetics, how you were raised, your social environment, and your emotional health. Some racial groups, such as American Indians and Native Alaskans, are more at risk than others of developing alcohol addiction. People who have a family history of alcoholism or who associate closely with heavy drinkers are more likely to develop drinking problems. Finally, those who suffer from a mental health problem such as anxiety, depression, or bipolar are also particularly at risk, because alcohol may be used to self-medicate.

.           Not all alcohol abusers become full-blown alcoholics, but it is a big risk factor. Sometimes alcoholism develops suddenly in response to a stressful change, such as a breakup, retirement, or another loss. Other times, it gradually creeps up on you as your tolerance to alcohol increases. If you’re a binge drinker or you drink every day, the risks of developing alcoholism are greater.

            Denial is one of the biggest obstacles to getting help for alcohol abuse and alcoholism. The desire to drink is so strong that the mind finds many ways to rationalize drinking, even when the consequences are obvious. By keeping you from looking honestly at your behavior and its negative effects, denial also exacerbates alcohol-related problems with work, finances, and relationships.

            Alcoholism and alcohol abuse can affect all aspects of your life. Long-term alcohol use can cause serious health complications, affecting virtually every organ in your body, including your brain. Problem drinking can also damage your emotional stability, finances, career, and your ability to build and sustain satisfying relationship
           
            Alcoholism and alcohol abuse can also have and impact on your family, friend and the people you work with.

             Despite the potentially lethal damage that heavy drinking does to the body-including cancer, heart problems, and liver disease-the social consequences can be just as devastating. Alcoholics and alcohol abusers are much more likely to get divorced, have problems with domestic violence, struggle with unemployment, and live in poverty.







By Cl. Vinay Ganawa
Why do men drink?

Men drink to share their joy and happiness.
They drink during the celebration or parties.
They drink when they are depressed or sad.
They drink to avoid tension.
They drink to gain confidence.
They drink to keep themselves warm.
They drink because they are tired.
They drink just for fun sake.
They drink to be accepted by their friend.
They drink when they go through some crisis like break-up, family problem etc.
They drink to keep themselves healthy… drink as medicine.

They drink because they are addicted to it.
USE OF INTERNET
In today’s world most of us use internet. But how do we use it is important.
There are positive and negative impact of it.
Positive: internet is used for many good purposes like to get information , to communicate in a large scale, to get your work done fast and easily, to find some answers, and to keep in touch with each other. In this way internet is very useful.
Negative: people are also misusing the internet, they are using for their own selfish purposes like: using it to insult someone through means of communication, to watch porn movies, to hijack someone’s account, to get every thing ready made and becomes lazy, etc.
So in this way internet is helpful for us and also harmful for us.

It depends on us how do we use the internet.
Use of Cell Phone
 In today’s world the cell phone has become a common thing.
Most of the people have got the phone.
It is being used for the good purposes.
It has made the communication style very easy and comfortable.
The communication happens very fast.
It can communicate in any place and any time.
Therefore the use of cell phone is very helpful.


T.V.
T.V. is a kind of teacher.
It may teach us good things or evil things.
There are some good programme on T.V. like about family, value based, general knowledge et.
But some programme may give us wrong information like: evil, immorality, sexuality in negative way, killing, murder etc.
So in this way T.V. may teach us good as well as bad values.

It’s depends on each one of us what kind of programme we watch.